tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82619612024-03-13T09:35:41.167-06:00Ferocious Flirting: Making Marriage WonderfulThou shalt flirt ferociously each day with thy spouse that thy marriage shall be blessed with strength, joy and longevity. In everyday life its important to take a moment to keep the romance kindled. How can a husband and a wife keep the romance alive? Here are some romantic tips for married couples; including how to have romance in your marriage when there are children.Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.comBlogger476125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-54721572176786037172023-08-21T08:43:00.003-06:002023-08-21T08:45:15.952-06:00Digital Detox for Couples: The Benefits and How to Do It
Photo by Brian Jr Asare: Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.We live in a world filled with phones, tablets, and computers. While these gadgets can be fun and helpful, sometimes they get in the way of spending quality time with our loved ones, especially our partners. A "digital detox" means taking a break from these gadgets to focus on each other.Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-3736485327600790402023-08-14T08:09:00.001-06:002023-08-14T08:09:39.321-06:00How Your Phone is Destroying Your Relationship: Understanding Phubbing and Other Digital Pitfalls Photo by fauxels
Smartphones have become an integral part of our daily lives, but they can also create challenges in relationships. From constant distraction to a phenomenon known as "phubbing," this blog post explores how your phone may be harming your relationship and provides actionable steps to reclaim intimacy and connection.
1. Constant Distraction
Constant notifications, social Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-63040279930491469302023-08-10T08:33:00.000-06:002023-08-10T08:33:04.063-06:00Brighten Your Relationship: The Power of Smiling at Your Spouse 😊
Introduction:
We often overlook the simple act of smiling, but did you know that this small gesture can work wonders in your relationship? A smile can light up a room, and most importantly, it can light up your marriage. Let's explore why smiling at your spouse is vital, how to achieve a natural smile, and much more!
Why It's Important to Smile at Your Spouse:
Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-70014616279228135472023-08-07T08:03:00.006-06:002023-08-07T08:03:33.464-06:00Unlock Deeper Connection 🤝: 4 Must-Ask Questions to Increase Emotional Intimacy with Your Spouse ❤️Photo by Amir HabibiEmotional intimacy is not just a buzzword; it's the cornerstone of a thriving, passionate relationship. Connecting with your spouse on a profound emotional level can turn an ordinary relationship into an extraordinary one. But how can you unlock this deeper connection? Here are four must-ask questions to enhance emotional intimacy with your spouse and spark that magical Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-32831741993709756222023-08-05T16:37:00.002-06:002023-08-07T07:46:46.912-06:003 Unique Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your RelationshipRomance is a crucial ingredient in every relationship, and going on dates is one of the best ways to nurture it. But if you've found yourself stuck in the dinner-and-a-movie rut, it's time to think outside the box. Here are three unique date ideas to reignite the spark in your relationship:1. Movie Night Under the Stars 🎥🍿🌟Imagine cuddling under a blanket, the sky filled with stars overhead, Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-75158215016299808082023-07-31T19:12:00.001-06:002023-07-31T19:12:27.647-06:005 Fun and Easy Ways to Keep the Spark Alive in Your MarriageMarriage is a wonderful journey, but like any journey, it sometimes needs a little spark to keep it exciting and rewarding. The small, seemingly insignificant moments can often have the most significant impact on the strength and longevity of your relationship. Here are five fun and easy ways to keep the spark alive in your marriage.1. Surprise DatesRemember the thrilling anticipation of a date Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-74033062554603023242023-07-27T08:26:00.000-06:002023-07-27T08:26:13.761-06:005 Powerful Ways to Overcome Feeling Alone in MarriageMarriage is a beautiful union of two individuals who promise to share their lives, dreams, and aspirations with each other. However, even in the most loving marriages, feelings of loneliness can sometimes emerge. The daily grind, communication breakdowns, and life's challenges can lead to a sense of isolation. If you find yourself struggling with feeling alone in your marriage, know that you are Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-66126170061589969782023-07-16T16:10:00.001-06:002023-08-02T08:24:16.806-06:00The struggle to forgive Photo by PixabayWhat is the hardest thing about forgiveness?The hardest thing about forgiveness is letting go of the pain and resentment associated with the offense. It requires us to release the desire for revenge or justice and accept that we cannot change the past. Forgiveness often challenges our ego, as it involves surrendering our sense of superiority or victimhood. Additionally, Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-45832906880727236022018-06-15T08:28:00.001-06:002018-06-15T08:29:02.735-06:00Don't stop flirting with each other
Don't stop flirting with each other
Ferocious Flirting: Making Marriage Wonderful is published by the Cleverly Group and is available for order on Amazon. This book takes a positive approach to marriage as a lifelong relationship should be fun.
The book has been grouped into sections to make the ideas really stand out. Sections include:
Continue Courting
Gifts Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-42180841214288860332018-06-06T22:06:00.001-06:002018-06-06T22:06:50.485-06:00Flirting in front of the kids
Kids need to know parents love each other
I came across an article "5 Reasons Parents Should Flirt In Front of The Kids" and it reminded me of some thing that happened the other day.
Our toddler grandson has learned to give hugs and kisses. My wife and I were standing together letting him give each of us a hug or kiss in turn. He then reached out and pushed our heads together so Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-47716280730689019092018-05-12T15:11:00.000-06:002018-05-12T15:11:22.828-06:00Why dating is important in marriage
Dating is important in marriage
I ran across this page and video why dating is important in marriage and it reminded me of how important dating is in a marriage.
Dating is how you got to know each other and fall in love. Dating is how you will continue to stay in contact and keep falling in love.
Dating in marriage is different than single dating. It is about shared Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-84022847218602746072016-04-21T08:24:00.004-06:002016-04-21T08:27:26.412-06:00Bible Thought - Proverbs 15:1
Answer
Proverbs 15:1—“A soft answer turneth away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.”The way we talk is at least as important as what we say.
See Also:
8 Essential Marriage Tips from the Scriptures
Wisdom from Grandpa
Points to Ponder
Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-42246394720277161702016-04-18T20:09:00.004-06:002016-04-18T20:09:38.449-06:00Nurture a marriageIn a recent quote:
白鷺呵寶 Nurturing Parents
Marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other human relationship. Yet some married couples fall short of their full potential. They let their romance become rusty, take each other for granted, allow other interests or clouds of neglect to obscure the vision of what their marriage really could be. Marriages would be happier Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-15542662899148233362013-09-13T06:38:00.001-06:002016-04-18T19:46:14.670-06:00Ban on Technology in the Bedroom
The Need for Protecting Your iPad
Daniel Craig is quoted over at The Telegraph as saying
"There’s
nothing technological allowed in the bedroom.
... Fighting against technological devices taking over one’s life “is a good fight
to have, as far as I’m concerned,”
A good, strong, happy marriage is all about communication. Ironically, the very devices we use for communication Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-27572148419494136002013-07-04T11:27:00.002-06:002013-07-04T11:27:36.613-06:00Video: Keeping romance aliveSometimes even the most passionate relationships can feel like they're
losing heat, but with just a little bit of rekindling, you'll have those
flames burnin' once again. Learn simple ways you can add more romance
to your marriage. Watch the Video. Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-64057305630417592242013-06-20T14:19:00.000-06:002013-06-20T14:19:00.153-06:00Video on Marriage and Selflessness
Watch a new #MormonMessage about marriage and selflessness. http://t.co/VAxi70wT4f
— The LDS Church (@LDSchurch) June 20, 2013
Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-71249349720656299702013-06-19T10:20:00.001-06:002013-06-19T10:20:56.004-06:0010 Ways to Survive (and Thrive) in a Difficult Marriage | All Pro DadI like the All Pro Dad and they often have good advice and not just for dads. In the most recent article, 10 Ways to Survive (and Thrive) in a Difficult Marriage | All Pro Dad, they discuss how to survive in a difficult marriage. As usual, the advice is good and sound. However, I thought to add another thought. Most of the ten items correctly advise to not try and change the spouse, but to Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-33036955874454442262013-06-17T19:32:00.001-06:002013-06-17T19:43:47.497-06:00Weeding
Individuality, a photo by Batikart ... handicapped ... sorry for no comments on Flickr.
Weeding makes me philosophical. Maybe it is that so many parables are have their root in working the land. Maybe it is the undistracted quiet or maybe there is just something deeper about getting my hands dirty.
I have a flower bed that has a lot of grass in it that I have to keep pulling Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-66798495814687671242013-06-14T15:59:00.001-06:002013-06-14T15:59:42.093-06:00Our Love is One in a MelonOur Love is One in a Melon, a photo by boopsie.daisy on Flickr.I love thisMatthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-33252560925290538742013-06-14T15:38:00.001-06:002013-06-14T15:38:02.561-06:00Sweet EmbraceSweet Embrace, a photo by ilovestrawberries (Carmi) on Flickr.I just found this picture fun and wanted to share.Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-27171032530816787142013-06-13T09:45:00.002-06:002013-06-14T16:00:26.406-06:00How do you flirt with your spouse?
Our Love is One in a Melon, a photo by boopsie.daisy on Flickr.As a reader of this blog, you will know that we are all about flirting with each other as a way to keep life interesting. Well, over at about.com there is a reader poll: How Do You Flirt With Your Spouse? which is worth a look. You can comment here or there, but please share.
Some other ideas:
Love on a Postcard
Keep inMatthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-16581450413115200232013-06-12T17:56:00.002-06:002013-06-14T15:46:10.857-06:00Monopoly
Lots of open questions. / Massor av öppna frågor (8/365), a photo by Mattes Svart Photography on Flickr.
The other day my wife and I decided to play Monopoly which is something we have not done in a long time. It is of those games we used to play as kids, especially on New Year's Eve when you have a long time to kill. The game started out fun as we enjoyed spending the time togetherMatthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-23269666624342582932013-04-27T21:31:00.000-06:002013-04-27T21:31:00.179-06:00Being supportiveIn an article Be a Supportive Spouse there is a list of ways to show support for your spouse including:
Respect your spouse's personal decisions.
Don't be threatened by your spouse's accomplishments. Tell people,
especially your partner, how proud you are of his/her talents and
skills.
There are a lot of other ideas on being supportive of each other. Having someone to celebrate Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-79204304179942836962013-04-26T21:06:00.001-06:002013-04-26T21:06:10.528-06:00I do not love shopping, I love my wife.I was speaking with a couple the other day and the wife mentioned how much her husband liked to shop with her. The husband then gave us the thought for the day, "I do not love shopping, I love my wife." He then went on to talk about how much he loved and appreciated the woman who is both his wife and the mother of his children.
All couples have interests they share, it is whatMatthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8261961.post-84159247786626711002013-04-25T11:04:00.002-06:002013-04-25T11:04:52.729-06:00Flritinator is up and runningIn conjunction with the blog and the book
, is now the Flirtinator! An easy to use tool that generates ideas for flirting with your spouse.Matthew O. Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09782540965685467311noreply@blogger.com0