When we do things this way, what happens?
- Your sweetheart feels manipulated. They will begin to start asking, "What is it now?" every time you try and do something nice for them.
- You will feel that your sweetie owes you the thing you want. If they don't give you what you want you will feel cheated.
- It works to douse the romantic flame of the marriage.
Don't forget to smile to show you really love your sweetheart, even if you don't enjoy the task. Remember to keep special things special.