Monday, February 07, 2005

Remembering Romantic Gestures

Take a moment and thank you sweetie for some romantic gesture you really appreciated. Do not couch it as a "you used to do nice things but don't anymore". Instead, just thanks them like "It was so much fun when ... ". This will do two things. First, it will let you both share the moment again. Second, it encourages your sweetie to do romantic things by showing that you appreciate them long after the fact.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Thank you for the suggestion. I think the hardest thing is being selfless enough to see love. I sometimes have a difficult time understanding my husband and letting him go enough to be himself. The thoughts shared here beg the individual to exsamin motivation and intent of each perspective. This then allows you to see the love in a new light, providing a sense of vitality in the relationship.

Thanks again